Reflections on the Year 2010

Images-33 Today is the last day of 2010 and soon another year will be history and another year (and decade, depending on how you count) will have begun. Each year we all become a little older and life moves forward. I turned 49 this year, so next year is the big 50. Our oldest son got married this year and our youngest finished Year 12. My, how time flies!

Various journalists and newspapers have taken time to reflect on 2010, noting some of the big news stories, including the Chilean incredible mine rescue, the tragic coal mine accident in New Zealand, the destructive earthquake that hit Haiti killing 230,000 people, the floods that devastated Pakistan affecting 20 million people, and the draws and close calls (including hung parliaments in the UK and Australian, and a drawn Grand Final in the AFL). TIME magazine named the founder of Facebook as the person of the year. Yahoo has a Year in Review web site. Christianity Today magazine has written about it's Top 10 Stories of 2010.

In the midst of all of this, God has been at work building His kingdom all over our world. Sometimes we see it, sometimes we don't. Sometimes it is spectacular, sometimes it is not. More often than not it is hidden in the ordinary day-to-day aspects of our lives. We experience His touch but don't always recognise it at the time. Often on reflection, we see God in new and fresh ways. 

What about your life? What were some of the highlights of 2010 for year? With the passing of the times and seasons, it is always good to stop and reflect … on what God has done, on what life has brought us (our experiences), and on what we have learned. Live … and learn … and be sure to give thanks.

I'd like thank everyone for their support and involvement with this BLOG during 2010. I also pray that during this coming year, as we continue to journey together with God, that He will lead us forward into a fuller expression of His will in our lives and on this earth – for His glory. 

Inside the Christmas Story

Unknown-15 There are lots of things to like about Christmas – the time with family, the holidays, the gifts, the carols, the lights, and the good food. What I like most is the Christmas story itself. Unfortunately, because most of us have heard the story so many times, it can lose it's impact and meaning, simply due to familiarity. It's like driving to work the same route every day – it is easy to miss things we have never really seen before. In the same way, the Christmas story has been somewhat sanitised and romaticised over the centuries, losing some of its grittiness.

At our Christmas Day meetings we took a fresh look at the old well-known story – it's meaning, it's characters and it's impact. Of the four Gospels we have, Mark begins with Jesus already grown up while John focuses on the pre-existence and incarnation of Christ. Only Matthew and Luke describe the events surrounding the birth of Jesus, each giving two full chapters to the topic, but both from different perspectives. 

We took time to understand more deeply the context of the story (one of the worst times to live in Judea) and the experience of the characters. From Zacharias and Elizabeth we can learn not to allow years of disappointment to destroy our hope for the future. From Mary and Joseph we can learn to accept and trust God, even when life takes unexpected turns. From the shepherds and the wise men we learn that God's love reaches to all people – rich and poor, religious and irreligious, the famous and those on the margins of society, Gentile and Jew. From Simeon and Anna we learn that God is faithful to keep his promises, even when there seems to be a long delay.

From King Herod and the slaughter of the innocent baby boys born around that time we learn that we still live in a world marred at times by tragedy and suffering. What a paradox that the very time of joy to the world because the Messiah had come was also a time of deep pain and grief for numbers of families in the area surrounding Bethlehem. We don't like to talk about this too much – but it is the reality of life. [Some churches and groups celebrate the 'feast of the holy innocents' even to this day – see article here]

Of course the hero of the story is Jesus – God in human form. Coming near to us, embracing and experiencing first-hand our suffering, sin and pain … yet offering us hope, both for the present and the future. Christmas really is good news – because of Christ.  

The Christmas story is one of the most amazing stories ever known. It includes a virgin conception (the second most controversial miracle next to the resurrection of Jesus), miraculous dreams, angels, prophetic fulfillment (God is omniscient as well as sovereign, so nothing takes him by surprise) and a guiding star! It is a call to reverence (wonder) and worship. Let's worship Christ this season and marvel with wonder at the still amazing grace of God.  

Christmas Day 2010

Unknown-14 Tomorrow is Christmas Day and millions of people around the world will be celebrating the arrival of Jesus Christ into our world over 2000 years ago. Jesus changed the course of history and demonstrated the unfathomable love of God for broken humanity. Christmas is about God's amazing love for us – undeserved and unearned.We love Him because He first loved us. I pray that each one of us knows and believes His love for us in a new dimension at this important time of the year. 

I hope that you have an enjoyable Christmas and holiday season. May God continue to shine His light through us in this dark world.

P.S. For a bit of fun, think about what Jesus might say to Santa Claus

Wendell Smith (1950-2010) – a Hero of Faith

Wendell Wendell Smith, the founding pastor of the influential City Church in Seattle, Washington, passed away this week after a 6-year battle with cancer. Wendell was a pastor, a preacher, an author and a leader of leaders. Wendell is survived by his wife Gini, his son and daughter-in-law, Judah and Chelsea Smith, who are now the Lead Pastors of The City Church, and his daughter and son-in-law, Wendy and Benny Perez, pastors of a thriving church in Las Vegas.

Wendell and Gini were my youth pastors when I lived in Portland, Oregon back in the 1970s at what was then known as Bible Temple. I will forever be grateful for their positive influence on my life in my teenage and early young adult years. I still remember listening to Wendell's practical teaching on "The Roots of Character." He encouraged me frequently in the development of my gifts of music and leadership. His example and leadership inspired me and gave me confidence when Nicole and I later led our youth group here in Australia for five years.   

Wendell was a man of faith with a huge heart of love for God and people. He was a man of vision, with a deep passion to pursue the purposes of God in our generation. He had a terrific sense of humour and an ability to encourage people from all walks of life. 

The City Church will host a memorial service at 6 p.m. January 7 at Overlake Christian Church. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations go to the Rose Hill Cottages, a nonprofit ministry that provides housing for foster families in the Seattle area, at www.thecity.org/giving, or to the Wendell Smith Auditorium at The Church at South Las Vegas, www.thechurchlv.com. Also, if you plan to attend please click here to RSVP. You may also visit pastorwendell.org at any time to RSVP, post comments, or get up-to-date information.

Wendell, thank you for your example and inspiration over so many years!

P.S. Live streaming: For those unable to attend the memorial service, we will be streaming the service live over the internet, starting at 5:30 p.m. and ending after the service. Flash player and minimum 3MB connection required; H.264 capability for mobile phones, including iPhone and Android. For projection: widescreen 16:9 at 1280×720. You may test your system compatibility here.

 

Scrivener: Great Software for Writers, Speakers and Composers

Images-31 For anyone who writes or speaks, the task of preparation is part science and part art … with lots of prayer and perspiration mixed in. Some people think more intuitively. I know one speaker who prepares all of their messages in their head – never writing anything down. Others write out their ideas, sometimes word for word – on paper or by typing into a word processor.

I have always used a note pad to scribble down ideas for messages, often creating a bit of a pathway or 'story board' to outline my flow of thoughts and the direction of a message. Then I will type in all the details of my thoughts and research into a WORD document – often cutting and pasting back and forth. This can be quite a challenge, especially with a long document where you can't see everything in front of you at once. 

Enter … some new software … Scrivener.

Scrivener was designed by a writer … for writers. Take the time to watch the 9 minute demo here.

This is a terrific piece of software … and it works on a MAC or within Windows (beta version currently available). You can have everything in one place, including your research and other bits of information you may not need for your final message, whether spoken or in writing. I have just started using this program and I love it already. I can't wait to watch all of the video tutorials and use this software to its fullest potential. 

For a more in-depth review click here and here.

Scrivener … I highly recommend it!

P.S. A 'scrivener' is a scribe who can read and write. 

Six Mega Themes for the Church in 2010 (Barna Update)

Images-30 A recent report by the Barna Group highlights six mega-themes in the church that have emerged in 2010. Click here to read the full report. Here they are:

1. The Christian Church is becoming less theologically literate.

2. Christians are becoming more ingrown and less outreach-oriented.

3. Growing numbers of people are less interested in spiritual principles and more desirous of learning pragmatic solutions for life.

4. Among Christians, interest in participating in community action is escalating.

5. The postmodern insistence on tolerance is winning over the Christian Church.

6. The influence of Christianity on culture and individual lives is largely invisible.

Have a read of the report and let me know what you think.

FOCUS: What People Need from their Pastor

Images-29 What People Want from their Senior Pastor

REVEAL also included research about what people expect from the Senior Pastor (or Senior Minister – SM). People view the Senior Pastor’s responsibilities as:

1. Serving Advocacy. The SM is expected to be the chief promoter and champion of serving opportunities. They identify and encourage the use of people’s gifts and talents. They attract, develop and motivate ministry teams. They promote and create enthusiasm for serving activities. They create a welcoming and friendly environment for this to occur.

2. Spiritual Challenge. The SM is expected to provide sound doctrine that is biblically accurate, to model and reinforce how to grow spiritually, and to challenge the people to grow and take next steps.

3. Pastoral Care. The SM is expected to counsel people facing major life decisions, minister to the sick, dying and bereaved, and provide guidance to individuals about spiritual development.

4. External Focus. The SM is expected to be a recognized voice on important local issues, to be involved in issues of global significance, and to motivate the church to recruit new members. This includes representing the church to other organizations.

5. Preaching and Vision Casting. The SM is expected to preach inspiring sermons and to cast a vision that captures people’s hearts.

6. Unity and Stability. The SM is expected to maintain harmony, handle troublemakers, avert/resolve problems, and help ensure that the church is financially stable. They are to be a stabilizing force  

When studying the influence of each of these responsibilities on church satisfaction, the following insights were made:

1.Preaching and vision casting have the biggest impact on satisfaction with the senior pastor (51%). This is what people want most from their senior pastor. Its influence is three times greater than the next category.

2. Spiritual challenge is a secondary influence on satisfaction with the senior pastor (17%). The SM is expected to be the church’s chief theologian and a spiritual role model.

3. Pastoral care (9%), unity/stability (11%) and serving advocacy (12%) have less impact on satisfaction with the senior pastor than preaching and vision casting. These areas are important but their impact on satisfaction pales in comparison to preaching and vision casting.

4. External focus does not influence satisfaction with the senior pastor. External focus, although something people expect, has no influence on satisfaction with the senior pastor.

5. The drivers of senior pastor satisfaction are the same for everyone – no matter where they are on the spiritual continuum. What people want from their senior pastor does not differ based on spiritual maturity. Every time the senior pastor gets up to preach, they are responsible for speaking one message to a group of people who are at different stages of spiritual growth. Preparing an effective spiritual message for such a diverse crowd is like preparing a math lesson for a group of students with education levels ranging from primary school to university. It is impossible to be equally effective for all of them, yet this is the expectation.

What People Need from their Senior Pastor

The research revealed three key findings:

1. Spiritual challenge is the senior pastor’s most significant driver of spiritual growth. Spiritual challenge has by far the most powerful effect on spiritual growth for all three movements. Great preaching and vision casting is definitely what people want from the senior pastor but it is not, by itself, particularly influential on spiritual growth. On the other hand, spiritual challenge, delivered through teaching, counseling or leading the church – is clearly what people need from the senior pastor in order to grow. The SM must challenge people at all stages of spiritual growth to take the next step.

2. The most spiritually mature people need more from the senior pastor to help them grow than those at earlier stages of spiritual development. As people mature, they need more from the senior pastor. The most mature, need serving advocacy, unity and stability and external focus.

3. Pastoral care does not contribute to spiritual growth. Pastoral care is needed at particular times – for example, during a life crisis – but it is not something needed to spur on spiritual growth.

In conclusion, people want great preaching and vision casting from their senior pastor but people need spiritual challenge in order to grow. The ability to deliver spiritual challenge is the senior pastor’s most influential driver of spiritual growth.

What do people want from Preaching and Vision Casting?

The research revealed four insights:

1. Spiritual challenge is what people want from preaching and vision casting. People are hungry for spiritual challenge.

2. Sound doctrine and modeling influence everyone on the spiritual continuum. Everyone strongly desires biblical teaching and a senior pastor who models growth.

3. Challenge and next steps are important for all believers.

 4. Serving is significant for those in earlier segments of spiritual growth.

Other Insights

The senior pastors’ leadership role (80%) had four times the impact on satisfaction with the church’s role in spiritual growth compared to the role of teaching (20%). In other words, the senior pastor’s leadership of the church – which means making and executing the kinds of decisions that create an environment of spiritual challenge and spiritual guidance in all ministries – drives satisfaction with the church’s role in spiritual growth by a margin of four to one. Day-to-day decisions   about how to lead the church – specifically the decisions that deliver spiritual guidance to the church – have an even greater impact than the very best sermon.

The spiritual growth of a congregation depends on having a senior pastor who does two things: (1) delivers spiritual challenge through both teaching and leading; (2) demonstrates through daily decisions and behaviors that the role of leadership is the one deserving the senior pastor’s greatest time, energy and attention. Being a great leader is more important than being a great teacher, when it comes to the long-term spiritual growth and viability of a congregation.

A concluding statement from Greg Hawkins on the research: “as church leaders, we need to give people a place to belong and a pathway that guides them on their journey toward intimacy with Christ. We catalyze their spiritual growth by helping them understand the Bible in great depth, by challenging them to apply the Scripture with specific next steps and by modeling how we are taking those steps ourselves.”

The above material has been summarized from the book FOCUS: The Top Ten Things People Want and Need from You and Your Church by Greg L. Hawkins and Cally Parkinson (Willow Creek Resources: Barrington, IL, 2009). 

FOCUS: What People Need from their Church

Images-29 What people want and what they need may be the same thing or they may be different. Sorting out wants and needs is an important task for any church leader. Understanding what people really want from their church is an important starting place. We need to understand why motivated people show up every week. What do they want from their church experience? Knowing this helps you determine whether there is an “expectation gap” or not. 

The following insights were gleaned from surveying 80,000 people in 376 churches who took the REVEAL spiritual life surveys between October 2008 and March 2009. The churches represented a broad range in size, style and theological persuasion (including Pentecostal churches).

The five big categories that drive church satisfaction and spiritual growth are:

1. Spiritual Guidance (54%). This includes the church helping people understanding the Bible, developing a personal relationship with Christ, encouraging personal responsibility for spiritual growth, leaders modeling growth and showing how, and challenging towards growth and next steps.

2. Belonging (31%). This includes the church helping people to feel like they belong,. Assisting in time of emotional need and providing places for connection with others.

3. Accountability and Impact (9%). This includes the church helping people develop relationships that encourage accountability, providing opportunities to grow spiritually through relationships, and empowering people to male a significant impact in the lives of others.

4. Ownership (6%). This includes the church setting clear expectations for what it means to be apart of the church and inspiring a sense of ownership and commitment that leads to active engagement in the life and mission of the church.

5. Serving. This includes the church providing a strong serving culture and opportunities to serve those in need.

Here are five conclusions from the research:

1. Spiritual guidance has by far the biggest impact on people’s satisfaction with the church. People come to church hoping to know and become more like Christ. This drives more than half of the combined impact of all five categories.

2. Belonging is also a powerful drive of satisfaction with the church. This accounts for approximately one-third of the circle of impact.

3. The influence of accountability/impact and ownership on church satisfaction is limited

4. Serving did not emerge as an influential category. Serving others is not on the radar screen for most people when they think about what makes them satisfied with how the church helps them grow spiritually.

5. The drivers of church satisfaction are the same for everyone – no matter where they are on the spiritual continuum. Spiritual guidance and a sense of belonging are what everyone wants from church.

Wants are optional. Needs are essential. What do people need from church? Here are the three conclusions from the research:

Continue reading “FOCUS: What People Need from their Church”

FOLLOW ME: What’s Next For You?

Images-28 There is nothing more difficult to gauge or measure than spiritual growth. However, we must do our best to try. After conducting the REVEAL survey with over 6000 of their own church members and another 300 people who had left their church within the previous year, Willow Creek started involving other churches in the research. Specifically, they surveyed 80,000 people in 200 congregations. The focus this time was extended to include research into what people really want from their church, the barriers they face, and what draws them closer to Christ.

Many insights emerged including one of the top answers to the questions “What’s the most important thing you want from your church?” as being ”Challenge me to grow and take the next step in my spiritual life.”

Spiritual Catalysts

Fifty factors were assessed as to their impact on spiritual growth. These fall within four categories of spiritual catalysts:

1. Spiritual belief and attitudes. Foundational beliefs are critical. Key beliefs include: salvation by grace, he trinity, a personal God, Christ is first, the authority of the Bible, identity in Christ, giving away my life and stewardship. Two beliefs catalyze growth across all three movements across the spiritual continuum: “Jesus as first in life” and “the authority of the Bible. “

2. Organized church activities. The catalytic power of the church is limited primarily to the first two movements of spiritual growth. Church activities provide an ‘on ramp’ to spiritual growth.

3. Personal spiritual practices. Reflection on Scripture is the number one factor across all three movements.

4. Spiritual activities with others. Spiritual community is a critical catalyst for spiritual growth.

Spiritual growth is not linear or predictable. It is a complex process as unique as each individual, and it progresses at a pace determined by each person’s circumstances and the activity of the Holy Spirit.

Other Insights

From the wider church surveys, it was discovered that 32% of people fell into the struggling, unhappy groups of “Satisfied but Stalled (15%),” “Dissatisfied and Stalled (7%),” and “Dissatisfied but not Stalled (10%).” 

People who are Stalled spiritually fall mostly in the earlier segments of spiritual growth. People get “un-stuck” by re-engaging in spiritual practices.

Dissatisfied people are present in all segments. Usually these feelings arise from three unmet important elements in the weekend services: (a) “Relevant Bible teaching to help me with everyday life,” (b) “Is challenging and thought-provoking,” and (c) “Provides in-depth study of the Bible.” Addressing these unmet expectations will resonate with all people, regardless of their satisfaction with the church and no matter where they are on their spiritual journey.

Two other breakthrough discoveries were: (1) Christ-centered people show enormous capacity for increased kingdom impact and (2)the Bible is the most powerful catalyst for spiritual growth.

Continue reading “FOLLOW ME: What’s Next For You?”

REVEAL Survey (Part 3)

Reveal Twelve bonus discoveries were made from the survey:

  1. Growing up in a church is the leading reason people begin to explore Christianity. Other reasons relate to personal feelings of emptiness or struggle.
  2. People begin attending their church primarily because of a personal relationship or recommendation.
  3. Expressions of gratitude toward God and dependence on God rise dramatically across the spiritual continuum.
  4. People’s feelings/attitudes about the importance of spiritual practices in their daily lives advance significantly along the spiritual continuum.
  5. People openly acknowledge that significant barriers, like addictions or emotional issues, impede their spiritual growth.
  6. As they advance along the spiritual continuum, people express a growing need for a spiritual community that “holds me accountable.”
  7. There are many reasons why people serve, but most importantly they feel it is an expression of their faith.
  8. The number one evangelistic activity for most segments is talking about prayer or offering to pray for non-Christians.
  9. More than half of those surveyed said that they used the Internet at some point in the last year to advance their spiritual growth.
  10. The Stalled and Dissatisfied segments are significantly more likely to say they are considering leaving their church.
  11. Six church attributes are most important to people, although satisfaction levels vary considerably (provides compelling worship services, helps me develop a personal relationship with Christ, challenges me to take the next steps in my spiritual life, helps me understand the Bible in greater depth, helps me feel like I belong, and helps me find a spiritual mentor). .
  12. People say weekend services are important to their spiritual growth, and they especially appreciate the singing/worship experience.

Now check out: FOLLOW ME: What's Next For You?

The material in these three BLOG posts has been summarized from the book REVEAL: Where Are You? by Greg L. Hawkins, Cally Parkinson and Eric Arnson (Willow Creek Resources: Barrington, IL, 2007). See also www.revealnow.com

REVEAL Survey (Part 2)

Reveal Willow Creek were shocked with the findings from this survey and spent more than two years assimilating the research. The results have led to a total rethink as to how Willow Creek is coaching Christ-followers. Specifically, they have made three strategic changes:

1. They Changed Their Message to the Congregation. They realized that they had been wrong in thinking that their job was to meet all of the spiritual growth needs of their congregation. They have endeavored to shift people from dependence on the church to a growing interdependent relationship with the church. They now let people know early on in their journey that they need to look beyond the church to grow. Getting a weekly dose or two of what the church has to offer (even if it is great) will never be sufficient spiritual nutrition for survival, let alone growth. They now see that their people need to learn to feed themselves through personal spiritual practices that allow them to deepen their relationship with Christ.

2. They Now Coach Next Steps. They are endeavoring to shift the church from a spiritual parent role top that of a spiritual coach. Like attending a gym and meeting with a trainer, each person needs a personalized workout plan. One of the church’s initiatives is to create a tool everyone can use to assess the current state of their relationship to Christ (‘spiritual fitness’) and then to recommend a customized growth or ‘workout’ plan that provides direction fort their next step spiritually.

3. They Have Extended the Impact of their Weekend Services. Weekend services are very important on the early stages of spiritual growth but have less value for those further along the spiritual continuum. They are experimenting with ways to provide more additional follow up resources for those who would like to go a little deeper on a particular topic.

As a result of these changes, Willow Creek are moving beyond merely asking “How many?” to asking, “How did this event help people grow?” and “Which segment of people was this event intended to help, and did it actually help them?” They are also moving beyond asking, “How are you?” to deeper questions such as: “How is your relationship with God?” “What is helping you grow spiritual these days?” “What ministry is making a difference in your life and how?” and “What could the church do differently that would help you grow more?”

Speaking at a leadership conference, Bill Hybels summarized the findings this way: “Some of the stuff that we have put millions of dollars into thinking it would really help our people grow and develop spiritually, when the data actually came back it wasn’t helping people that much. Other things that we didn’t put that much money into and didn’t put much staff against is stuff our people are crying out for. We made a mistake. What we should have done when people crossed the line of faith and become Christians, we should have started telling people and teaching people that they have to take responsibility to become ‘self feeders.’ We should have gotten people, taught people, how to read their bible between service, how to do the spiritual practices much more aggressively on their own.”

Tomorrow – 12 bonus discoveries …

REVEAL Survey (Part 1)

Reveal Willow Creek Community Church in Chicago, led by Bill Hybels, has conducted surveys every three years to assess the quality and impact of their ministry.  After moving into a new 7,200-seat auditorium in 2003, they conducted one of their most extensive surveys ever. Their focus in the survey was less on “how many?” but more on “where are you?” – are people moving towards deeper love for God and people? They endeavored to measure spiritual growth, defined as “an increasing love for God and other people.”

The survey results revealed six insights:

1. Involvement in church activities does not predict or drive long-term spiritual growth. Church activities alone do not create spiritual growth. But there is a “spiritual continuum” that is very predictive and powerful.

2. Spiritual growth is all about increasing relationship to Christ. The spiritual growth continuum has four stages:

(a) Exploring Christianity – “I believe in God, but I’m not sure about Christ. My faith is not a significant part of my life.”

(b) Growing in Christ – ”I believe in Jesus, and I’m working on what it means to get to know him.”

(c)  Close to Christ – “I feel really close to Christ and depend on him daily for guidance.”

(d) Christ-centered – “God is all I need in my life. He is enough. Everything I do is a reflection of Christ.” 

3. The church is most important in the early stages of spiritual growth. Its role then shifts from being the primary influence to a secondary influence. The church’s main activities (weekend services and small groups) decline in importance as people advance along the continuum. Personal spiritual practices begin to become more crucial at the later stages of growth.

4. Personal spiritual practices are the building blocks for a Christ-centered life.

5. A church’s most active evangelists, volunteers and donors come from the most spiritual advanced segments.

6. More than 25% of those surveyed described themselves as spiritual “stalled” or “dissatisfied” with the role of the church in their spiritual growth (with many of them were considering leaving). Both segments voiced complaints about the need for more in-depth teaching, more connection opportunities, more serving options and more of about everything else they felt was missing from their church experience. 

Tomorrow – a strategic response …

Some Advice for Lebron James

Images-27 Lebron James is possibly the greatest basketball player on the planet today. I like him. He is a gifted athlete and has a rare set of skills that are a joy and inspiration to watch … when he is playing well.

About five months ago, Lebron's contract with the Cleveland Cavaliers ended and he decided to sign a new contract with the Miami Heat. Nothing wrong with that. Players do that. It was his choice to make … just like Gary Ablett Jnr decided to sign with Gold Coast after playing for Geelong for so many years.

However, the way Lebron went about announcing his decision was wrong. "The Decision", as it is now referred to, was made publicly on national television and the owner of the Cavaliers, along with the coach, Lebron's teammates and all of the fans … found out at the same time. This was disrespectful, to say the least, and has been a catalyst for Lebron's popularity plummeting dramatically – almost as bad as Tiger Wood's fall from grace. Former Cleveland fans burned uniforms with his number on them and he is now booed in every stadium across the USA, except for Miami. To top it all off, this week he is about to enter his old Cleveland stadium to face 20,000 extremely hostile fans when Miami take on Cleveland for the first time this season. 

So what should Lebron do? Simple. He should apologise. Let's call it "The Apology." Here's a sample script for Lebron: "In reflecting on my decision to move to Miami this last summer, I now realise that the way I announced my decision was wrong. It was disrespectful to the Cleveland Cavaliers and I am sorry. It could have been done better and I could have minimised the hurt and pain I have caused. If I did it over again, I would do it differently. Please forgive me."

Now, I am sure there would be plenty of cynics who would not change their opinion of Lebron one bit even if there was "The Apology" … BUT at least he would be taking full responsibility for his actions. He totally misread the implications of "The Decision" and the public sentiment that followed. Apologising is the right thing to do … and it might just start to turn the tide of opinion that has been so strongly against him. Finally, it might play a small part in helping the Heat develop some better chemistry, after such a poor start to the season, and become the championship contender everyone thought they would be.