Evangelism for Non-Evangelists (Part 4)

4. Keep the Passion Alive

Priorities can be easily replaced by other seemingly urgent or pressing matters. As we become busy with so many things in church life we can begin to drift from our mission. That’s why the work of an evangelist also involves keeping the evangelistic passion of a church community alive and bright hot.

There are a number of ways to do this:

·         Have new Christians share their testimony with the church. There is nothing more impacting than congregations hearing stories of changed lives.

·         Preach and teach about evangelism every year. Good Bible teaching has a way of heating up important values.

·         Keep a record of important “vital signs” such as people coming to faith and water baptisms. When these numbers stop growing or begin to plateau it’s probably time to stir the fires of evangelism again.

·         Attend other highly evangelistic churches or conferences.

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Evangelism for Non-Evangelists (Part 3)

3. Create Evangelistic Opportunities

The third thing that evangelists should do is to create evangelistic opportunities for people. The Great Commission involves both “Go” (Matt.28:18-20) and “Come and see” (John 4:29). In other words, believers are to go and share their faith out in the world and they are to invite their friends to come and see the activity of God within the church community.

The church is not to be a castle surrounded by a moat to keep all of the unbelievers out. Each local church should create as many entry points and bridges as possible so that people can be encouraged to experience the life of Christ within the church community.

Our church does this in a variety of ways:

  • We ensure that each church meeting is sensitive to and relevant for those who are far from God. This does not mean that every meeting needs to have an evangelistic message or that we should stop doing things such as worship, prayer, or ministry. It simply means that we are always seeking to create an environment where new people feel welcomed and included. This includes things such as a special welcome for visitors during the meeting, an invitation to our visitor’s lounge, and occasional explanations of various components of the meeting so that a newcomer knows what is happening.
  • We ensure that special yearly events are opportunities for people to invite friends to church – e.g. Father’s Day, Mother’s Day, Easter, Christmas, etc.
  • We offer the ALPHA Course throughout the year, which is an excellent program for people to consider the claims of Christ in a safe friendly environment where they can interact with others and ask questions.
  • All of our ministries have outreach-focused events throughout the year – small groups, youth, young adults, etc.
  • We hold special IF ('invite a friend') events throughout the year that are specially designed for people to bring their friends along to an appropriate evangelistic meeting. We make use of music and drama as well as testimonies of changed lives.
  • A few years ago we started a community outreach ministry. Our aim was to allow our programs to emerge in response to the greatest needs in our community. As a result, we now have a large ‘Op Shop’ supplying low cost clothing. We also have financial counselling and food parcels, as well as a fully qualified counselling centre where sixty percent of the counselees are from the local community. When a church adds value to its local community in this way it sows many seeds of love and kindness that often result in people coming to faith.

A while back, I interviewed a family who had all become Christians during the year. One of them, a young single woman, was invited to attend our midweek ALPHA course where she became a Christian. After attending our church for a while she invited her mother along, who responded to a message and came forward and gave her life to Christ. As a result of this, another daughter began to attend and over time her and her husband have found faith in Christ. This is how the gospel travels – through relationships and over a period of time.

Another couple in our community were having marriage problems. The wife came for counseling and began to receive help. As a result her husband came for counseling and their marriage was restored. She then invited him to our church where he became a Christian. A few months later, he invited his brother to a guest service we held and he made a commitment to Christ too.

It is vital that there is consistency of quality and approach with your various outreach events and activities. This helps people to develop confidence and trust that if they invite a friend they will not be disappointed or surprised by something they did not expect. 

When a church becomes passionate about reaching people for Christ and then starts putting out all sorts of ‘nets’ into their community it’s amazing how God begins to work to draw people to himself. Evangelists must create as many evangelistic opportunities as possible.

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Evangelism for Non-Evangelists (Part 2)

2. Equip People to Share their Faith

The second thing we must do if we are to do the work of an evangelist is to train people to share their faith. One of the tasks of an evangelist it to “equip” the entire church to do the ministry of evangelism (Eph.4:11-12). God wants every Christian to be a soul winner. Jesus told his disciples, “I will make you fishers of men” (Mark 1:17). The Holy Spirit comes to give us power and boldness to witness for Jesus Christ (Acts 1:8). The apostle Peter told all believers to “be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give a reason for the hope that you have” (1 Pet.3:15). Solomon tells us, “The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life and he who wins souls is wise (Prov.11:30).

Most Christians know that they should share their faith but often they’re too afraid, they’ve tried and failed or they don’t think that they are capable. Our role as leaders is to not just tell them “what” they should be doing but to teach them “how” so that they gain confidence. People need help with application not just more information. They need to know how to share their faith.

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Evangelism for Non-Evangelists (Part 1)

Many years ago, when I began a new role as senior minister of a large church, I knew that God was calling me to help the church become more outward focused. The evangelistic passion and effectiveness of the church needed to lift considerably.

My main spiritual gifts are leadership and teaching. Evangelism is not a strong part of the way God has made me. After all, God gave “some” to be evangelists, so not everyone has this spiritual gift (Eph.4:11). However, I sensed the Lord challenging me that although I was not an evangelist I needed to “do the work of an evangelist” just like Timothy was encouraged to (2 Tim.4:5).

Timothy was a young pastor/teacher who was stationed in Ephesus as Paul’s apostolic representative (1 Tim.1:3). This church had experienced significant levels of outreach in its early days (Acts 19-20) but false doctrine emerged within the church and it is highly possible that the evangelistic fervour of the church had waned. Paul did not tell Timothy to be or to become an evangelist (something he was not) but simply to do the work of one.

What is the work of an evangelist? As I contemplated this question a few key tasks emerged: ensuring that churches and believers embrace’s heaven’s priority and have a heart for lost people; training and equipping people to share their faith; ensuring that the churches and believers engages in variety of evangelistic activities; and helping the church and believers keep their evangelistic passion and fervour alive.

Over the next few days we'll discuss each one of these. Today, let's look at the first one – embracing heaven's priority.

1. Embrace Heaven’s Priority

We know that heaven is a place of continual joy and celebration. However, there is one thing that causes the joy level in heaven to increase exponentially. What is it? The joy level in heaven increases when one person bows their knee and confesses Jesus Christ as the forgiver of their sin and the leader of their life. Jesus tells us that there is “more joy” in heaven over one lost sinner who repents than over ninety-nine others who never strayed (Luke 15:7,10). Heaven’s priority is seeing lost people found.

This priority was demonstrated by Jesus himself who came into the world for one primary reasons – to save sinners (Mattt.9:13. Luke 5:27-32. 1 Tim.1:15). God’s heart is for the world (John 3:16) and he does not want one person to perish. He wants all people to be saved and come to know the truth (1 Tim.2:1-4. 2 Pet.3:9). If evangelism is heaven’s priority then it must be the passionate priority of the church here on earth. As Bill Hybels (pastor of Willow Creek) says, “Lost people matter to God, therefore they should matter to us.” Each local church exists not only to love God and other believers but also to reach out to those who are far from Christ. The church exists for mission.

Unfortunately, this work of evangelism has been pushed off on to believers by pastors, pushed off on to pastors by believers or pushed off to those believers with the gift of evangelism. As a result, in most churches evangelism just isn’t happening. The only way for the tide to turn is for churches to make a “priority shift” from an inward focus to an outward focus and for everyone to become actively involved. The church’s mission will only be accomplished as the entire church is motivated, equipped and deployed in the work of evangelism.

As a church leader, I had to embrace heaven’s priority in my own life first. Only after modelling this personally, could I then help our congregation change its values and begin becoming an evangelistic community. No church will be any more excited about evangelism and outreach than their leaders are. The Senior Minister must lead the way.

The good news is that mission is the activity of God himself. It is part of the very nature of God and has its origin in his heart. There is mission because God loves people. When we get involved in reaching out to people far from God we simply partner in what God is already at work doing in the earth. We embrace heaven’s priority.

For me this required placing a new priority on developing relationships with unchurched people, becoming more aware of their spiritual needs, and a greater boldness in proactively starting spiritual conversations. This was not easy at first, in fact, I felt quite awkward as I started to step out of my comfort zone and into new territory. However, as I faced my fears, confidence slowly began to grow, as well as the joy of touching someone else with God’s love.

 

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Parenting Teenagers

TeenYou may or may not have a teenager in your life right now but these years are often stereo-typed by rebellion and relational difficulties. This can cause a lot of parents to experience a great deal of fear as their children approach the teenage years.  

Nicole and I are the proud parents of three teenagers – aged 19, 17 and 15.  We can honestly say that we have enjoyed the teenage years as much as any of our years of parenting. Obviously, they haven’t been without their challenges, but then all relationships need work and wisdom.

Last year, Nicole led a panel of parents for a special presentation on Parenting Teenagers.

Here is a brief summary of the advice that emerged …

  1. Seek to build a good relationship with your teenager. Yes, you are their parent but you can be a friend too. After all, ‘rules without relationship often leads to rebellion’ (Josh McDowell).
  2. Model your values, don’t just talk about them. Your teenager will learn more about life from your behaviour than your words. Teenagers crave for authenticity and integrity and they despise hypocrisy and duplicity. Love God, watch your words, be grateful, learn to forgive, and say sorry when appropriate. Be a model of what you’d like them to be (1 Cor.11:1).
  3. Seek to understand. It is vital that we as parents do all we can to understand our teenagers and the world they live in. They are experiencing massive developmental and relational changes. Hormones are going crazy and moods can tend to swing wildly.  This affects their feelings about themselves and their relationships with other people. Ask God for wisdom and gain all the knowledge and understanding you can (Prov.24:3-4). When you truly to seek to understand another person, including your teenager, it communicates great value.
  4. Discuss and define your expectations as clearly as possible. Then be consistent in following them up. The older a child becomes, the less boundaries you have. The idea is to use boundaries to help bring a teenager to maturity until they have discernment to make their own decisions.
  5. Take responsibility and own your mistakes. Don’t blame others or make excuses. Admit your own mistakes and apologise when necessary. This teaches your teenager to do the same. Apologising appropriately is not a sign of weakness, but of maturity.
  6. Discover your teenager’s gifts and passion. Each child is unique Help your teenager understand how they are ‘wired’ so that they can pursue fulfilment of their own God-given potential. Don’t force them into your mold or pressure them to follow your ideas for their future. This only creates frustration. Not every child is musical, or artistic, or academic. Help your teenager discover who they are, to find their voice, and then pursue its expression with confidence.
  7. Help your teenager set their own value system. This can be a little scary – bringing your teenager to a place where you gradually let them go. The key is to do our best to help them establish a value system that will enable them to think through the consequences of their own choices.
  8. Help your teenager connect with God in a personal way. We all sense God in different ways. Help your child discover how best they connect with God. See my post on How to Connect with God.
  9. Pray for and with your teenager. Model your faith and belief in God. Teach your teenager to know and rely on God for everything in their life.
  10. Encourage your teenager. Look for the good and commend them as often as you can (Heb.3:13). Don’t adopt a negative focus and allow yourself to be continually bothered by their short-comings. Speak about those when necessary and confront appropriately, but choose to make the majority of your words be focus on edifying and encouraging them. Nitpicking tends to harden and close hearts.
  11. Love your teenager at all times. The Bible says that of all qualities, love is the greatest (1 Cor.13:13). This kind of love is … patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not proud, not rude, not self-seeking, not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs … always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres, and it never fails. We want our teenagers to experience this kind of love and become people who allow the love of God to flow through them. How we love our teenagers will often be a reflection of how they love others. Consider the concept of love languages also.

For some more general parenting tips, see my post Some Wisdom for Parents.

Information Overload

Information_overload_2One of the challenges we face today is ‘information overload’. Knowledge is increasing at such a frenetic pace and it’s just so hard to keep up with everything. It is estimated that human knowledge is now doubling every 10-15 years.

We can so easily feel overloaded and stressed by it all.

Here are a few thoughts and tips on handling information overload:

  1. Focus on reading and meditating on the Bible. Never forget: "All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. 17 God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work." [2 Timothy 3:16-17. NLT]
  2. Realise that you don’t have to know it all! Focus on learning the important things about life (who you are and why you’re here) and be content with that. 
  3. Know people who know what you don’t know. Be a learner and ask lots of questions.
  4. Know where to find the information you need. Good sources of general information include the Encyclopedia Britannica and Wikipedia, a free online encyclopedia.
  5. Learn to speed read. One of the biggest hindrances to reading anything is the belief that we ‘have to’ read every word. Check out The Speed Reading Book by Tony Buzan for starters.
  6. Read summaries of good books. Check out Christian Book Summaries (free!) and Soundview Executive Book Summaries for business books (well worth the subscription price).
  7. Look for the ‘super texts’. Find out who the key influencers and thinkers are in a specific area (the people that everyone else likes to quote) and read their material. Once you discover an excellent author who is very knowledgeable, read everything they’ve written. That way, you’ll glean from all of their learnings. 

During a dinner with Erwin McManus last year, we were discussing this area of information overload and he observed that years ago, ministers were usually the primary source of information for people in their congregations. This is no longer the case. People have all the information they want readily available to them now – right at their fingertips. Our challenge is to help them find meaning amongst all the information they have.

May God grant us understanding of the knowledge we gain and wisdom for know how to apply it!

"Sell everything and buy Wisdom! Forage for Understanding! Don’t forget one word! Don’t deviate an inch! Never walk away from Wisdom — she guards your life; love her — she keeps her eye on you. Above all and before all, do this: Get Wisdom! Write this at the top of your list: Get Understanding!" [Proverbs 4:5-7. The Message Bible]

"In [Christ] lie hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge." [Colossians 2:3. NLT]

Recommended Newspapers and Magazines …

NewspapersIn addition to reading the Bible regularly, and a variety of other books (see Recommended Reading and The Art of Reading), I also like to browse through various newspapers (online) and magazines from time to time.

Here is a list of my favourites …

Newspapers …

  • The Herald Sun – Melbourne’s most widely read newspaper. It sells more than 554,000 copies a day (February 2006), reaching 1.5 million readers.
  • The Age – Melbourne’s other popular newspaper with more indepth articles and editorials.
  • The Australian – Australia’s best newspaper for keeping touch with what’s happening around our nation.
  • USA Today – America’s best selling popular newspaper, with a wider readership than the Wall Street Journal and the New York Times.

Magazines …

  • TIME magazine – a great way to keep a pulse on key issues happening globally.
  • Christianity Today – an evangelical publication highlighting current issues and events in the Christian world.
  • Leadership Journal – a Christian magazine with excellent articles on topics relevant to leadership.
  • Ministry Today – a magazine highlighting issues and events in the charismatic/Pentecostal world.
  • REV Magazine – a practical magazine with helpful articles for a variety of church ministry areas.
  • Harvard Business Review – the classic source of business wisdom for managers and organisational leaders.

Happy reading!

MARGIN

Margin‘Margin’ – every book has one. Margin is the space between the words and the edge of the page. It helps the book breath a little.

Unfortunately, most of us live our lives without any margin. It’s a modern day problem: margin-less living. We fill our lives to capacity. There’s no space, no room to move. We’re stressed and overloaded. Our limits are being challenged. Margin has been lost … and if something unforeseen happens, suddenly we’re over the edge.

Limits aren‘t the enemy … overload is. What we need is a re-establishment of margin in our lives. Author and Doctor Richard Swenson defines ‘margin’ as ‘the space between our load and our limits’. It is the gap between rest and exhaustion.

Overload just happens. Margin requires great effort. It doesn’t just happen. We naturally tend to drift away from margin not towards it.

Healthy living requires margin in four areas: emotional energy, physical energy, time, and finances. Create a life with margin … beginning today.

“There is more to life than increasing its speed.” [Ghandi]

“Westerners have all the watches but we have all the time.” [African man]

Margin … Think about it.

FAMILIARITY

FamiliarOne of the most dangerous yet subtle enemies in our lives is a thing called familiarity.

It is so easy to take things in life for granted – to become familiar with them.

When things are new and fresh they often have a lot of excitement linked to them.

Here are a few examples …

  • We start out at a new job … how cool.
  • We fall in love with someone … how romantic.
  • We have our first child … how exciting.
  • We move into a new home … how fun.
  • We make a new friend … how wonderful.

But if we’re not careful before long … the precious becomes common and romance becomes routine. The novelty wears off and we’ve been trapped … by familiarity.

If you want to break familiarity, then remember the ‘specialness’ of those things and people in your life. Reflect back to what it used to be and start to relive those thoughts and feelings. Keep your emotions free from negativity. Keep a grateful attitude. Don’t take things or people for granted. See them for how valuable and precious they really are.

Familiarity … Think about it.

OPENNESS

Open I’ll never forget having lunch with an influential leader a while back. I asked him how he was doing and he went on to tell me how great things were and about all the good things happening in his life. He then asked me how I was doing. I paused for a moment … things had been a bit tough for me at that time. Would I take the safe route and tell him things were ‘fine’ OR would I open up and tell him the truth?

I decided to share some of the difficulties I was facing. Interestingly, the conversation went to a deeper level and he actually then began to open up and share some of his own struggles. As a result, we were able to encourage one another.

Openness … it’s an amazing thing. In fact, it’s the key to intimacy and a sense of closeness in any relationship. Obviously, you need to feel ‘safe’ in order to be open, but it’s usually worth the risk.

Be open, honest and real. Share how you are really doing.

Openness … Think about it.

REJECTION

Have you ever felt rejected?

Pretty much all of us have at one time or another.

  • Maybe you were teased during your school years – just because you were different than everyone else.
  • Maybe you were laid off from your job for no good reason – they said you were ‘redundant’.
  • Maybe you were an unwanted child, who grew up without ever feeling love from one or both of your parents.
  • Maybe you have been abused – verbally, physically or even sexually.

Experiences such as these can be very hurtful and can tend to leave wounds in your heart, whether you are aware of them or not. You feel rejected. It really hurts … deep on the inside. Naturally, when rejected we want to give up, to hold out on people, or fight back.

There are no easy answers but we can take some steps towards freedom from rejection.

  1. We can accept ourselves, just as we are.
  2. We can develop friendships with people who love and accept us.
  3. We can choose to forgive those who have rejected us. After all, hurt people often hurt people. Break the cycle of revenge.

Freedom from Rejection … Think about it.

Rejection

LEADERSHIP

LeadersWe live in a world in desperate need of more and better leaders. Leaders are people who can see a picture of a better future and then motivate other people to work together to make that vision a reality. Leaders create movement. They’re always pressing forward to bring about positive change.

In a sense, we’re all called to be leaders. Each one of us can catch a glimpse of a better world. Then we can work together to take steps in the right direction.

Each one of us can influence someone else in a positive way. That’s what leadership is all about … influence. The question isn’t whether or not we have influence but what kind of an influence we are. Is it positive or negative? Is it helping or hindering?

No doubt, we need more leaders. Don’t just look to other people all the time. What about you? Maybe you’ve never thought of yourself as a leader. Why not just go ahead and take the lead … today!

Leadership … Think about it.

RESPONSIBILITY

ResponsibilityI’ll never forget when our kids were much younger, one of them running into our bedroom on a Saturday morning while we were sleeping and saying, “Dad, someone wet my bed”! I said, “What?” “Someone wet my bed”. I said, “Well, no-one’s been in your bed but you; it must have been you”. “No, no, it must have been somebody else, it wasn’t me!”

Isn’t it amazing how we tend to rationalise and justify ourselves so quickly and then blame other people for what’s happening in our world? I guess this goes way back to Adam. When Adam sinned, God came and said, “Adam, what have you done?” Adam blamed Eve. Eve then blamed the serpent and of course the serpent didn’t have a leg to stand on, but that’s an old joke!

It’s so easy for us to look at things happening in our world and blame someone else for them rather than taking personal responsibility. You can’t control what happens to you and what other people will do, but you can control your responses to those things.  Imagine the difference if each one of us would simply take responsibility for our lives.

Responsibility … Think about it.

FORGIVENESS

ForgiveMany years ago I was on a building site and I was cutting through a piece of wood with an electric saw. Unfortunately, I cut through the wood and then took a chunk out of my finger. There was blood gushing everywhere. It really hurt. I rushed off to hospital and got some stitches.

Thankfully, the body went into a healing process and over time the pain went away.  I have got a scar there and I remember what happened, but it no longer hurts. 

You know it is the same in our emotional world. Sometimes things happen that hurt us and it’s painful. But God wants us to experience a healing process so that over time the pain goes away. How does that happen? It’s only through choosing to forgive those that have hurt us that healing takes place. If we don’t forgive, bitterness will become like a destructive poison eating us up on the inside.

So I urge you today, has someone offended you? Have the courage to forgive them and to release them. Allow God’s healing grace to flow into your heart.

Forgiveness … Think about it.