Successful Christian Ministry

SCM KindleI love cooking. Sometimes I discover a new recipe that I am keen to try out on the family. At other times I pull out one my ‘classics’, a recipe that I have used before that everyone already loves. One of those classics is a roast chicken and vegetable meal based on a Jamie Oliver recipe. It is delicious! No wonder it is a hit every time I cook it up.

This time last week I was in Adelaide speaking at a ministers' conference for about 250 church leaders. The theme was ‘Growing Leaders to Grow the Church.’ Any time I talk to leaders, one of messages I usually share is a classic where I share what I believe are the principles of having a successful Christian ministry. I am not talking about just re-heating ‘leftovers’, which can be tasty or not, depending on the recipe. I am talking about those timeless meals or messages that always make an impact, as long as they are cooked or shared with fresh ingredients.

I wrote the first edition of this book ‘Successful Christian Ministry’ way back in 2003 – fourteen years ago. Although it has been around for a while and although I have shared this material in different ways dozens of times, it still rings true for me and the people I speak to. That is why I am excited to see this material now made available in eBook format.

In February of this year, I completed 32 years on staff at the church that I grew up in (initially called Waverley Christian Fellowship and then CityLife Church from 2003 onwards). I was a volunteer leader for 5 years before that. During those 37 years of ministry, I have served in a wide variety of areas within the church – worship, youth, administration, leadership, teaching, pastoral, evangelism and missions. As I now enter into a new season of coaching others, speaking more at other churches and conferences, and more writing, I believe that these seven principles are as relevant today as when they were first written. My prayer is that they will be a huge encouragement to you and an inspiration for you to be the very best you can be – for God and his church in the world.

Mark Conner (August 2017)

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Personal Update from Mark Conner

FullSizeRenderIt is hard to believe that it has been 6 months today since I finished up as Senior Minister of CityLife Church. The month of February this year was such as special time as we celebrated the 50th anniversary of CityLife, had my farewell, and inducted Andrew Hill as the next Senior Minister. These important events all went so well and I look back with gratitude for that. Nicole and I are particularly thankful for the many 'thank you' notes and video messages we received from people both inside and outside of CityLife, as well as the generous gifts from the church.

These last few months of ‘sabbatical’ have been a time of rest, relaxation, refuelling and recalibration for us. We really love living in the Sunshine Coast, Queensland, where we have relocated to, although we obviously miss our family and friends in Melbourne. No doubt, as hard as it has been, moving away was a good way to establish a clear transition from a long season at ministry at CityLife to our next season of life and ministry, as well as give the new Senior Minister the space that he needs to establish his own leadership.

Over the next few months I will begin to re-engage in a variety of ministry opportunities that are coming my way, including speaking at various churches and pastor’s conferences, coaching some pastors and church leaders, and doing some consulting work. I’m really excited about this next season.

Thanks for your support and prayers during my recent transition time. I really appreciate it.

All the best.

Mark

Update from Mark Conner

It is hard to believe that it has been 6 months today since I finished up as Senior Minister of CityLife Church. The month of February this year was such as special time as we celebrated the 50th anniversary of CityLife, had my farewell, and inducted Andrew Hill as the next Senior Minister. These important events all went so well and we look back with gratitude for that. We are particularly thankful for the many thank you notes and video messages from people both inside and outside of CityLife, as well as the generous gifts from the church.

These last few months of ‘sabbatical’ have been a time of rest, relaxation, refuelling and recalibration for us. We really love living in the Sunshine Coast, Queensland, where we relocated to, although we obviously miss our family and friends in Melbourne. No doubt, as hard as it has been, moving away was a good way to establish a clear transition from a long season at ministry at CityLife to our next season of life and ministry, as well as give the new Senior Minister the space that he needs to establish his own leadership.

Over the next few months I will begin to re-engage in a variety of ministry opportunities that are coming my way, including speaking at various churches and pastor’s conferences, coaching some pastors and church leaders, and doing some consulting work. I’m really excited about this next season.

Thanks for your support and prayers during my recent transition time. I really appreciate it.

All the best.

Mark

Reflections on Psalm 139 (Part 4)

As we said when we began these reflections, the writer of Psalm 139 was facing many challenges from unjust people and oppressors. In this context, a hymn of adoration was crafted, declaring that (1) God is always with us, (2) God's affections are towards us, and (3) we have a unique purpose. 

In concluding this journey, the psalmist offers a prayer to God:

An Open Book
Vs. 23-24. Investigate my life, O God,
find out everything about me;
Cross-examine and test me,
get a clear picture of what I'm about;
See for yourself whether I've done anything wrong—
then guide me on the road to eternal life. The Message Bible

When life is difficult and we are in the midst of stormy weather or huge challenges, it is easy to become overwhelmed. It is also common to get caught up in blaming God and others for our circumstances. We tend to want to ask that every-hungry question, always searching for an answer -"Why!?"

In contrast, this spiritual pilgrim looks in the mirror and invites God to conduct some self-examination. 

That's a good thing to do – for people and for leaders.

Business expert Jim Collins, in his extensive research on effective leaders, writes about what he calls a 'Level 5 Leader'. When things are going great, Level 5 leaders look out the window and give the credit to others. When things are going wrong, they look in the mirror and examine themselves as to what they can do better. In stark contrast, when things are going wrong, ineffective leaders look out the window and blame others. When things are going well, they look in the mirror and congratulate themselves. Ah, what a world of difference between these two kinds of leaders!

Many followers of Jesus have found it beneficial to have a daily time of self-examination. It is so easy to get caught up in the external world of what other people are saying and doing. There is great wisdom in first having a deep look at ourselves. After all, if you really want to change the world, change yourself first.

Suggestions:

  1. Start a journal.
  2. Make use of a daily awareness examen.
  3. Take time each day to pause and reflect, asking yourself a few key questions.
  4. Find a good counsellor and talk through some of your personal challenges. Outside input with accountability can be truly life-transforming.
  5. Practice the art of authenticity. It is quite counter-intuitive, but you will find that vulnerability has a way of freeing us from the shame of our own failures. 

We go about self-examination in a legalistic manner. God's Spirit never comes to condemn us (knock us down) but always to encourage us (lift us up). Condemnation is this general negative feeling of never being good enough while conviction is always specific and aimed at positive change. 

Making our life an open book can be scary and even risky but when it is done in the context of an awareness that (1) God is with us, that (2) he loves us, and that (3) he has a purpose for our lives, it can be one of the most transformative things we ever do. After all, God loves us too much to leave us as we are. That's why the essence of life is never about what we have achieved but rather about who we are becoming. You may have already discovered that God is more interested in your character than your comfort 🙂

Be the change you seek. 

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Reflections on Psalm 139 (Part 3)

Psalm 139 not only reminds us that (1) God is with us and that (2) we are objects of his affection. It also shows us that we have been crafted for a specific purpose.

Crafted for a Purpose
Vs. 15. You know me inside and out,
You know every bone in my body;
You know exactly how I was made, bit by bit,
How I was sculpted from nothing into something.

Vs. 16. Like an open book, you watched me grow from conception to birth;
All the stages of my life were spread out before you,
The days of my life all prepared
before I'd even lived one day. The Message Bible

Think about it. You are not a product of chance or accident. Even if your parents didn't want you, the truth is that you were shaped by design and for a purpose. Just like there is no snowflake or no fingerprint alike, so you are completely unique. No one is exactly like you. So why try to be like somebody else? Why try to copy or initiate others? You are a one-of-a-kind original. Tread your own path. Discover who you are and then be yourself. Live inside out. Let your true colours come shining through. You will feel better and the world will be a much better place as a result.

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No one's story is quite like your story. Quit following the scripts that other people have imposed upon you. Stop being dependent on your environment to tell you who you are or who you are meant to be. Dig deep inside and draw out who God has crafted you to be – nothing more and nothing less. Like an onion, peel back the layers that other people and circumstances have projected on you and discover who you really are – at your very core.

You are not your surname, you are not your post code, you are not your educational results, you are not your ancestry, you are not your birth order, you are not your career or your job title. Sure, all of these aspects have contributed to your life and have been influential factors BUT you are not dependent on them nor do you have to be defined by them alone. 

Here are some reflections questions that might be of hero as your journey further towards the full discovery of YOU:

  1. What did you love to do as a kid?
  2. When you were young, who did you want to be when you grew up?
  3. What is happening or what are you doing when time seems to stand still?
  4. If you could be or do anything you wanted to, what would it be?
  5. What would you do, even if you didn't get paid for it? [You might also like to read Discover for some more thoughts around how God has shaped you]
  6. What makes you angry? Sometimes this is insightful in discovering what problem you are called to solve.
  7. What energises you the most?
  8. What do other people tell you that you are really good at?
  9. Draw a timeline of your life so far, noting various stages and the transitions between them. What were your most enjoyable events? Most painful? How did these shape who you are today? What could the future hold?
  10. If you life was a story, what genre would it be? A comedy, a drama, a tragedy, a romance or an epic narrative? How would you describe yourself as the main character? [Check out The Story of Your Life for more on this way of looking at your life]

Here's to you being the best you, you can be!

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Reflections of Psalm 139 (Part 2)

As we continue our reflections on Psalm 139, we move on from the awareness that God is always with us to the understanding that you, like every other human being, are made in the image of God.

Let's read on …

Vs.13-15. Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out;
You formed me in my mother's womb.
I thank you, High God — you're breathtaking!
Body and soul, I am marvelously made!
I worship in adoration —what a creation!

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Your Identity – A Child of God

We all long for a sense of identity and significance. We often search for these things through our achievements, through acquiring material possessions, or through seeking forms of fame or popularity. Sadly, most of these pursuits end up being fleeting when it comes to a lasting sense of personal value. They so easily fade and leave us feeling empty on the inside. 

The good news is that we can have a lasting sense of identity through the realisation that we are a unique creation of God – formed by his hand even before we were born. Our true value is in who we ARE not what we DO. 

Imagine if we could live every day, not only with a constant awareness of God's presence but with a strong belief that we are valuable, precious, unique and special – because we have been created by God. What a difference that would make!

And then imagine if we treated every other human being the same way – realising they too are crafted in God's image and are greatly valued by God. It's true, you have never locked eyes with anyone who is not deeply loved by God.

Later in the Psalm, we read …

Vs. 17-18. Your thoughts — how rare, how beautiful!
God, I'll never comprehend them!
I couldn't even begin to count them —
any more than I could count the sand of the sea.
Oh, let me rise in the morning and live always with you!

How amazing is that! YOU are the Object of God's Love and he thinks about you all the time. In fact, the quantity of his thoughts about you are uncountable, like the sand of the sea.

No wonder Brennan Manning, author of the best-selling book Ragamuffin Gospel, said:

“Define yourself radically as one beloved by God. This is the true self. Every other identity is illusion.”

“My deepest awareness of myself is that I am deeply loved by Jesus Christ and I have done nothing to earn it or deserve it.”

Today, I pray that God's Spirit would keep you constantly aware that God is with you AND that His orientation towards you is one of love and goodwill. That's really good news!

Reflections on Psalm 139 (Part 1)

This beautiful Psalm begins by boldly declaring that God knows all about us, will never let us go, and has been involved with us from our earliest beginnings (vs.1-18). The latter part of the Psalm provides the context – one of feeling the injustice of people who go about doing wrong and need to be held to account (vs.19-23). When we are faced with life's contradictions, with personal challenges, or opposition from others, it's good to remind ourselves of these truths about God:

God With Us

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Vs.3-5. I'm never out of your sight …
I look behind me and you're there,
then up ahead and you're there, too —
your reassuring presence, coming and going. The Message Bible

The truth of God's 'omnipresence' is taught everywhere through the Bible. God is everywhere at once. There is nowhere you can go that he isn't already there. 

Unfortunately, a lot of the language that Christians use today has hints of Greek 'dualism' – the separation of the world into sacred and secular spaces. We often hear statements during church services such as, "Isn't it good to be in God's presence today?", as if we weren't beforehand and won't be when the church meeting is done! Another classic is, "Isn't it good to be in God's house today", as if God lives in the church building and will be waiting all week, hoping we will return next week! Of course, there is often something special that happens when followers of Jesus gather together but let's not let that result in a mindset that assumes that God is not with us unless we are with other believers. Another common prayer phrase is, "God, please be with us today", as if he is somewhere else and we need to call him to come hang out with us. 

The truth is that we are always in God's presence. He is Emmanuel – "God WITH us". WE are God's house. He dwells, or lives, inside of us as his people. What we need is not more of God's presence. We need a greater awareness of His presence. 

I love the story of Jacob who came to a certain desert place. Once asleep, he had a dream of angels ascending up into heaven and and descending back down to earth on a ladder. When he woke up he declared, "God is in the place and I did not know it!" What turned a desert place into 'Bethel' – the place where God lives? Awareness of God's presence. 

God is with us – always. Imagine if we could live with this reality. 

Of course, it's worth considering whether this is good news or bad news. This truth can be both solemn, realising that God sees everything and we are accountable for our words and actions, and encouraging, knowing God is always near.

It reminds me of one of the prayers believed to belong to St Patrick, the 5th century Irish missionary. He is widely celebrated as being the one who brought the good news of Christ to what was, at the time, a largely pagan island. By the time of his death he is said to have established over 2,000 churches in Ireland. The prayer is written in the style of a druid chant. Legend has it that St Patrick recited these words before encountering a number of druids who had been plotting against him. 

Here are a few stanzas. As you read them slowly, may they be your prayer as you live each day in the presence of Almighty God – wherever you are and whatever you may be doing. Remember, God IS with you.

I arise today
Through the strength of heaven:
Light of sun,
Radiance of moon,
Splendour of fire,
Speed of lightning,
Swiftness of wind,
Depth of sea,
Stability of earth,
Firmness of rock.

I arise today
Through God's strength to pilot me:
God's might to uphold me,
God's wisdom to guide me,
God's eye to look before me,
God's ear to hear me,
God's word to speak for me,
God's hand to guard me,
God's way to lie before me,
God's shield to protect me,
God's host to save me
From snares of devils,
From temptations of vices,
From everyone who shall wish me ill,
Afar and anear,
Alone and in multitude.

Christ in me, Christ beneath me, Christ above me,
Christ on my right, Christ on my left,
Christ when I lie down, Christ when I sit down, Christ when I arise,
Christ in the heart of every man who thinks of me,
Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me,
Christ in every eye that sees me,
Christ in every ear that hears me.

I arise today

Through a mighty strength, the invocation of the Trinity,
Through belief in the threeness,
Through confession of the oneness,
Of the Creator of Creation.

Read: Part 2

Pass the Baton: Successful Leadership Transition

Screenshot.jpgCityLife Church, located in Melbourne Australia, had three Senior Ministers in the first 50 years of it's history. Richard Holland was the founding pastor and led the church for 20 years, followed by my father, Kevin Conner, who led the church for the next 8 years. I was the Senior Minister for the next 22 years before passing the baton in February of this year to Andrew Hill. [Read my announcement on 28th February 2016]

Like any relay race, passing the baton effectively is vital for any organisation, including a local church. I wrote about this a few years ago, in response to many people wanting to know what lessons we had learned from our leadership successions at CityLife. The book is called Pass the Baton: Principles of Successful Leadership Transition.

  • You can purchase a paperback copy from WORD books or from Amazon in the USA and a few other countries. 
  • An eBook edition is also available via Kindle at Amazon.

This book outlines the story of the two successful senior leadership transitions that have taken place at CityLife Church – from Richard Holland to Kevin Conner and from my dad  to myself. Also included are many practical principles for any leadership transition – in a church, a ministry, an organisation or a business. We have had very good feedback from many churches and leaders who have used the lessons from our journey to help them in their own transitions.

I pray that this book continues to be a help and a blessing to many churches and ministries in Australia and around the world. The revised edition has a number of edits and updates, including the fact that our founding pastor, Richard Holland went home to be with the Lord in 2008.

Recommendation for Mark's previous book Transforming Your Church:

  • "Mark Conner is one of the finest leaders I know. He is that rare combination of a bright mind and a fully yielded heart. His observations concerning the shifts that must take place in order for a church to reach its redemptive potential are profound. And Mark’s insights are far more than theory. One visit to his church is all it will take to turn cynics into believers. The Church for the 21st Century will require a higher level of leadership than any other era in human history. Books like this one will contribute a great deal to the development of such leadership. I am deeply grateful to Mark for his friendship and the impact that he is having on churches and leaders in Australia, and increasingly all over the world." Bill Hybels [Senior Pastor, Willow Creek Community Church]

Living with JOY

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Over the last month or so, I have been gradually reading through the book of Psalms in The Message Bible translation. It's a wonderful collection of songs and poetry, expressing the full range of human emotion: disappointment, frustration, anger and hope, as well as praise, worship and joy.

One of the most well known Psalms is Psalm 100 – which is a call to worship. It begins by declaring, "Make a joyful shout to the Lord, all you lands!" The next line is "Serve (or worship) the Lord with gladness (or joy)."

Every day, as we go about our life, we are serving someone – at home, through volunteering, or at our workplace. Those of us who are people of faith are challenged to do everything we do … as unto God (see Paul's instructions in Colossians 3:23). However, serving, in and of itself, is not the only thing that God is interested in. How we serve is very important. The way we go about doing our work matters. Here, the Psalmist tells us to “serve … with gladness (or with joy).”

There will be a lot of people going out to work or serve this week … but how will they serve? How will you serve and add value to the people around you? Let's make a choice to serve others with JOY. 

What does JOY look like to you? Being joyful is not about being someone you are not (e.g. introverts trying to be extroverts!). However, it is about the attitude we bring to the task we are engaged in at any given moment and the atmosphere we create through our presence.  

In the Bible, we are told that the joy of the Lord is our strength (Nehemiah 8:10), that joy is an infallible sign of God’s presence (Psalm 16:11), that joy is the essence of life (Ecclesiastes 3:22; 5:19), that joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22), that joy is an attribute of God's kingdom rule (Romans 14:17), and that joy can inspire people who are looking at our lives (1 Kings 10:1-13).

Joy is also a key to effectiveness in work. In his best-selling book Managing to Have FunMatt Weinstein shows why a company that 'plays' builds a business that works. Many people think that work is not supposed to be fun. That’s why they call it work. Work and Play are supposed to be opposites, like Love and War. “Make love, not war.” “Quit playing around and get back to work”, is an often heard saying.  Traditional wisdom says that if you see someone having fun on the job then that person is slacking off. This time, traditional wisdom is dead wrong.

Other people say, “I never mix business with pleasure”. However, if you want a successful team at work you should always mix business with pleasure. Be always on the lookout for finding new ways to bring pleasure and joy into your business for yourself, your employees and your customers.

For too many companies, building a team means creating a high-powered, smoothly functioning organisation that has plenty of muscle, but not much heart. It is the absence of the human side of a business or organisation that depletes employee morale, and contributes to job dissatisfaction and burnout. By adding an element of fun and celebration to a team-building program, you can take an important step towards humanising your workplace, and creating a sense of heart and soul.  

Some managers, however, weaned on a “never mix business with pleasure” attitude, have a difficult time buying into the value of humor. “You can’t be serious?” is the incredulous response to the suggestion to lighten up. And they’re absolutely right. You can’t be serious, at least not if you’re interested in improving staff morale or motivating employees to new heights. And if you want to spark creativity, strengthen teamwork, facilitate open communication, minimize stress levels, reduce employee turnover and absenteeism rates, improve trust between management and employees, offer dynamic customer service and improve productivity, then you can’t be serious. You can’t be serious, because humor can help any organization achieve all those goals.

Adding humour is about celebrating work, not trivializing it. And it’s about mixing humour in an appropriate manner to improve workplace productivity. Learn to take yourself lightly, while still taking your job seriously. When you laugh at yourself, you demonstrate your humanity and openness and encourage others to do likewise. As an added bonus, you take away anyone’s ability to laugh at you. Remember, as a leader, people look to you to set the tone for the office. You have the power to decide whether you’re going to be a roadblock on the inspiration highway or a catalyst for creativity and positive energy.

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I've found it beneficial to think about the things that come to steal away my joy. What are your joy-robbers? Maybe it's worry, or frustration, or busyness, or negativity (focusing on what is going wrong) or uncertainty (which often occurs during times of transition). We can learn to be on guard against these things that steal our joy.

It also helps to remember that happiness tends to be based on what 'happens' to us. It is circumstantial and is influenced by things outside of ourselves. Joy, in contrast, comes from the inside and is often a choice – and can occur regardless of our circumstances. Of course, that's easier said than done!

Habakkuk was a farmer living in pre-Christian times. It hadn't been a very productive year on his farm. Yet look what he chose to do:

"Even though the fig trees have no blossoms, and there are no grapes on the vine; even though the olive crop fails, and the fields lie empty and barren; even though the flocks die in the fields, and the cattle barns are empty, yet I will rejoice in the LORD! I will be joyful in the God of my salvation. The Sovereign LORD is my strength! He will make me as surefooted as a deer and bring me safely over the mountains." Habakkuk 3:17-19. NLT

The apostle Paul was in prison (for no fault of his own), yet he wrote this:

"Rejoice in the Lord and again I say, rejoice!" Philippians 4:4. 

Jesus' brother, James, wrote this in the first century:

"Dear brothers and sisters, whenever trouble comes your way, let it be an opportunity for joy. For when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be strong in character and ready for anything." James 1:2-4.  NLT

There's some challenging attitudes about life and choices to be joyful … no matter what. 

So how can we be more joyful … beginning today?

Here are three simple things I have found helpful:

1. Choose an attitude of gratitude. Focus on the good things in your life that you can be thankful for. An old hymn puts it this way: "Count your blessings, name them one by one, and it will surprise you what the Lord has done." How easy it is to count our problems or our challenges, rather than our blessings. Gratitude fuels joy. 

2. Smile! A smile welcomes people and warms the atmosphere in a room or space. Plus, we usually look better with a smile on our face. [Read more on the importance of a smile]

3. Maintain a sense of wonder. GK Chesterton once said, "The world will never lack for wonders, only for wonder." Like a child, never lose the wonder or the specialness of what is actually precious in your life – like your very breath. 

I pray that you will be filled with joy today as you live your life and serve others with the amazing gifts God has given to you. 

Cheers!