Proverbs 29

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It's time for our weekly wisdom from the book of Proverbs. Today we are up to chapter 29 (from the Message Bible translation): 

Vs.1. For people who hate discipline and only get more stubborn, there'll come a day when life tumbles in and they break, but by then it'll be too late to help them.

Do you take feedback seriously and with an open heart? Are you teachable? Do you listen to your critics? Or are you defensive? It's wise to listen and learn … 

Vs.11. A fool lets it all hang out; a sage quietly mulls it over. Vs.20. Observe the people who always talk before they think – even simpletons are better off than they are.

We all need to engage our brain before opening our mouth. God has given us two ears and one mouth so we should listen more than we speak. Think first. Let your words be few and well chosen.

Vs.14. Leadership gains authority and respect when the voiceless poor are treated fairly.

How you treat the less influential and seemingly less important people defines you. Ultimately, we treat people based on the value we place on them. Jesus treated everyone as if they were a #10. Do the same and see everyone as incredibly valuable to God.

Vs.18. If people can't see what God is doing, they stumble all over themselves; But when they attend to what he reveals, they are most blessed.

Take time to look and listen to what God is up to. He is a God who reveals himself and his plans to people. Prophetic vision gives purpose and meaning to life.

Vs.23. Pride lands you flat on your face; humility prepares you for honors.

Pride is a bit like bad breath. Everyone else knows someone has it, except the person! Humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less. Humility is acknowledging that God and others have been influential in anything we have become or accomplished. 

Vs.25. The fear of human opinion disables; trusting in God protects you from that.

Someone once said, "If you want to avoid criticism, do nothing!" It's impossible to please everyone all the time. Focus primarily on pleasing God while being sensitive to people, but without being dependent on their approval. 

The Busyness Bubble (by Greg McKeown)

BusyWe have a problem—and the odd thing is we not only know about it, we’re celebrating it. Just today, someone boasted to me that she was so busy she’s averaged four hours of sleep a night for the last two weeks. She wasn’t complaining; she was proud of the fact. She is not alone.

Why are typically rational people so irrational in their behavior? The answer, I believe, is that we’re in the midst of a bubble; one so vast that to be alive today in the developed world is to be affected, or infected, by it. It’s the bubble of bubbles: it not only mirrors the previous bubbles (whether of the Tulip, Silicon Valley or Real Estate variety), it undergirds them all.

Here are the three words: “The Busyness Bubble.”

The nature of bubbles is that some asset is absurdly overvalued until — eventually — the bubble bursts, and we’re left scratching our heads wondering why we were so irrationally exuberant in the first place. The asset we’re overvaluing now is the notion of doing it all, having it all, achieving it all; what Jim Collins calls “the undisciplined pursuit of more.”

This bubble is being enabled by an unholy alliance between three powerful trends: smart phones, social media, and extreme consumerism. The result is not just information overload, but opinion overload. We are more aware than at any time in history of what everyone else is doing and, therefore, what we “should” be doing. In the process, we have been sold a bill of goods: that success means being supermen and superwomen who can get it all done. Of course, we back-door-brag about being busy: it’s code for being successful and important.

Not only are we addicted to the drug of busyness, we are pushers too. In the race to get our children into “a good college” we have added absurd amounts of homework, sports, clubs, dance performances and ad infinitum extracurricular activities. And with them, busyness, sleep deprivation and stress.

Across the board, our answer to the problem of more is always more. We need more technology to help us create more technologies. We need to outsource more things to more people to free up own our time to do yet even more.

Luckily, there is an antidote…

Continue reading here on Greg McKeown's blog.

A Blogger’s Creed

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In our world of social media, it seems like everyone has a platform from which to share their opinion. The benefit of this is that it gives everyone a voice and it encourages open dialogue. The downside is when people get to preaching without listening or considering their tone and the impact that their words have on the listeners.

The apostle Paul wrote this to Timothy over 2,000 years ago. I reckon it's a good credo for anyone who BLOGs, tweets or posts on Facebook.

1 Timothy 1:5-8. The whole point of what we're urging is simply love – love uncontaminated by self–interest and counterfeit faith, a life open to God. Those who fail to keep to this point soon wander off into cul–de–sacs of gossip. They set themselves up as experts on religious issues, but haven't the remotest idea of what they're holding forth with such imposing eloquence. It's true that moral guidance and counsel need to be given, but the way you say it and to whom you say it are as important as what you say. Message Bible

Wise words for our wordy world.

Proverbs 22

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Here is some more valuable wisdom from Proverbs 22 (from the Message Bible translation): 

Vs.1. A sterling reputation is better than striking it rich; a gracious spirit is better than money in the bank. 

People can damage your reputation but that can't damage your character. That's your choice. Ultimately, our character, who we really are, shapes a lot of our reputation – what we are known for. So many people focus on acquiring wealth today. There is nothing wrong with money but who we are is much more important. How will you treat people today? Always be gracious … with everyone you meet.

Vs.3. A prudent person sees trouble coming and ducks; a simpleton walks in blindly and is clobbered.

Always think ahead. With every decision, consider the possible consequences. Wisdom has foresight and insight. What are the pros and cons, as well as the benefits and downsides of your intended course of action? 

Vs.7. The poor are always ruled over by the rich, so don't borrow and put yourself under their power.

Going into debt for an appreciating asset (such as a house or a good investment) can be a wise move. Most other debt can be destructive, putting us under pressure and taking away our joy. Do you need to create a debt reduction plan today?

Vs.9. Generous hands are blessed hands because they give bread to the poor.

Choose to be a generous person today – with your time, assistance, words and resources. 

Vs.24-25. Don't hang out with angry people; don't keep company with hotheads. Bad temper is contagious – don't get infected.

Who we hang around has a huge influence on who we become. They key is who is the greater influence. Be a positive influence on other people around you today and build key friendships with people who will help you become all God wants you to be.

Eat Move Sleep by Tom Wrath

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Physical health gives us the energy to enjoy life and carry out our God-given purpose with enthusiasm. God is interested in every part of our being – spirit, soul and body. Health doesn't just happen. It is the result of habits. Habits such as what we eat, the activity we engage in, and the rest we take.

I highly recommend Tom Wrath's practical book Eat Move Sleep which is about the big impact of small daily choices. It's an easy read but highly motivational and full of good advice for improving your health and well-being. Well worth the investment.

Proverbs 15

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Here is some timeless and timely wisdom from Proverbs 15:

Vs.4. Kind words heal and help; cutting words wound and maim.

Words have the power of life and death. Who can you help today through some encouraging or healing words?

Vs.8. God can't stand pious poses, but he delights in genuine prayers.

Prayer is simply honest, open conversation with God. Keep it real.

Vs.9. A life frittered away disgusts God; he loves those who run straight for the finish line.

We have one life to live. This is not a dress rehearsal. Discover your purpose and go for it. You can't be or do everything but you can be and do what God calls to you.

Vs.17. Better a bread crust shared in love than a slab of prime rib served in hate.

Relationships are much more valuable than wealth or riches. What is your focus right now?

Vs.18. Hot tempers start fights; a calm, cool spirit keeps the peace.

A soft answer can turn away anger. Be a thermostat that influences the atmosphere rather than a thermometer that merely reacts to the environment. Choose to cool things down when they get a but heated and warm things up when they get a bit cool.

Vs.19. The path of lazy people is overgrown with briers; the diligent walk down a smooth road.

There's a time to rest and a time to work. How's that rhythm and balance of activity and rest going in your own life?

Vs.22. Refuse good advice and watch your plans fail; take good counsel and watch them succeed.

Vs.31. Listen to good advice if you want to live well, an honored guest among wise men and women.

Who are your advisors? Do you have wise and experienced people around you who you can bounce your ideas and plans off of? Do you have people who are honest with you? Are you open to feedback?

The Great Bible Swindle (Australian Chrisitan Book of the Year)

A book that is not aimed at Christians has won the Australian Christian Book of the Year for 2014. The Great Bible Swindle is a book designed for Christians to give to “Uncle Fred”, a relative or friend who expresses curiosity about the Bible.

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It leads the reader gently into an understanding of the wonder of the Bible. It was written by Greg Clarke, CEO of Bible Society Australia, who in the wake of a long love affair with the Bible, has a passion to share his love of the book, and the big story within it.

The “Swindle” in the title is the loss caused to a rising generation whose ignorance of the Bible cuts them off from a full understanding of our culture.

“I am delighted and extremely honoured to receive this award,” Clarke told Eternity. “I do so on behalf of those who are labouring to ensure that the Bible has its proper place in our society. For believers, this means the front-and-centre of our faith, guiding our knowledge of God and his world. But for absolutely everyone living in a culture touched by Judaism and Christianity, it means being properly educated about the numerous ways in which the Bible has shape our world. As songwriter Paul Kelly once said, “the Bible has it all—Fellini and Tarantino don’t come close”.

See more including full news story and details about the runner ups.

The Persecution of Christians (Guest Post: J John)

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It is becoming apparent that far from dwelling at the ‘end of history’, as was naively envisaged at the fall of Communism, we are, in fact, living in perplexing, turbulent and dangerous days. One of the most troubling, if overlooked, features of our times is the appalling extent and depth of the persecution of Christians. Thirty years ago when we Christians talked of martyrs, we used the past tense; not any more. Whether in North Korea, India, Indonesia, Iran, Iraq, Sudan, Eritrea, Nigeria, Egypt, Syria, China, Pakistan or Columbia, Christians are being persecuted and killed for no other reason than their faith. A Pew Research Center report in 2012 noted that between 2006 and 2010 Christians were harassed in 139 countries. The exact number of Christians who are killed each year is impossible to determine (martyrdom does not lend itself to statistics), but it is widely acknowledged that it runs to tens of thousands. Of course, death is not the only outcome: over half a million Iraqi Christians have been forced to flee their homes in the last few years and well over 100,000 are now refugees. A once-vibrant Iraqi church, that had existed for nearly two millennia, is now on the verge of extinction.

There are many reasons why Christians are being picked on today. We in the Christian (or more properly, post-Christian) West need to remind ourselves that, worldwide, most followers of Christ are poor, marginalised and from ethnic or linguistic minorities. It is also easy for them to be associated with a Western culture that is widely and intensely disliked. It is, therefore, hardly surprising that, in a crowded world full of angry people, Christians make excellent and accessible scapegoats. It is notable that the former Chief Rabbi Jonathan Sacks told the House of Lords recently that the suffering of middle east Christians is ‘one of the crimes against humanity of our time’ and compared it with Jewish programme in Europe. The parallels are indeed striking and solemn.

Why is the West largely silent? The problem is that the liberal intelligentsia that govern so much of our thinking have been so conditioned to see Christianity as ‘the enemy’ that they cannot now bring themselves to perform the mental shift of recognising Christians as victims. The result is that defending Christians in far-off countries is not fashionable. At that stylish dinner party with your valued friends, it’s just not cool to say that you want to stick up for illiterate peasants in Pakistan or fundamentalist famers in Colombia. There is also, and I choose my words carefully, very little value for a politician in sticking up for Christians on the other side of the world. With some cultural minorities an action in favour of their kith and kin overseas may gain you a block vote that may help you win some marginal constituency. There is no such electoral bonus in dealing with the far less homogeneous and much more independently minded Christian communities.

Now there is a long and honourable tradition in Christianity of meekly suffering in silence, of not appealing to the wider public. (Another reason, incidentally, why Christians make excellent scapegoats.) After all, we believers know that this world is not our home, that the kingdom of heaven is not to be found on earth, and that, as our founder suffered martyrdom, we should be prepared for a similar fate. Yet the global attack on Christians has now reached such a scale that justice and wisdom require an appeal for action and support to be made to the widest possible audience.

Why should the sufferings of Christians concern anybody who is not a subscriber to our belief system? Let me make four appeals for all of us to be deeply concerned. Before I do, let me reject one possible reason. Quite simply, I am not concerned about the ultimate fate of the Church. That is in safe hands and we have an explicit promise that even the gates of hell will not triumph against it. Indeed, as this time of persecution unfolds there is enormous Church growth in many parts of the world. So, for example, reliable figures from China suggest that the Church there is growing at the rate of a million every two months. My reasons for concern lie elsewhere.

My first appeal is to the principle of common decency. 
I believe that in every one of us there is an inbuilt sense of right and wrong. What is happening to Christians is, quite simply, a moral outrage. There is almost no evidence that any of the Christians who are persecuted have done anything wrong other than hold fast to their own beliefs. What we are seeing is quite simply bullying of the worst sort. There is, it seems, a global mood that the followers of Jesus are fair game. It’s not right and I believe that we all know it. To ignore the bullied is to ally ourselves with the bully.

The second appeal I make is to a shared obligation. 
Western civilisation is unquestionably Christian. It is a slight embarrassment to the adherents of atheism or agnosticism that the very values that they uphold are Christian. To say that is not, of course, to deny that the roots of Christian ethics lie in the Jewish faith or to ignore the fact that some of our values are affirmed by other faiths. Yet much that is prized in Western culture – the right to free speech, the value of every individual, the recognition of love as the highest virtue, the commitment to charity and many other values – all come from the Christian faith. True, Christians have not always lived up to these values, but many have and their expression of the faith has shaped the world that we are happy to live in. The very fact that this article can be freely published and that you can read it without fear is itself a testimony to the enduring power of the Christian faith. There is a naive view that all human beings are fundamentally nice people and that any external morality is utterly unnecessary. Recent events have demonstrated that there are very different codes and belief systems in operation and some of them are really not very nice at all.

My third appeal is quite simply to self-interest. 
Those values that I mentioned were not simply fought for by Christians in the past, they are defended by them in the present. Jesus told his followers that they would be salt and light in the world, preventing rot and bringing illumination. Well, we have probably not been as good at either task as we might have been, but Christians do stand firm against the inbuilt tendency of things to go from bad to worse. Yes, you may find Christians to be dull, boring people who have beliefs that you find ridiculous and a morality that you find oppressive, but such people act as the glue and the framework in society. For instance, history recounts that expulsion of the Bible-believing Huguenots from France at the end of the seventeenth century removed a solid, moral, middle-class element from society and that this loss was a major factor in the revolution and terror that descended a century later. This pattern has been repeated endlessly. In the Armenian Genocide, one and a half million Christians were killed between 1915 and 1923. Despite opposition from the international community, there was no strong action taken or sanctions against the brutal policies of the Turks, or any rescue plan for the Armenian people. Twenty years later, the memory of the failure of the international community to protect the Armenians emboldened Hitler to move against the Jews and other ‘undesirables’. ‘Who, today, speaks of the extermination of the Armenians?’ Hitler is alleged to have said in 1939. Our failure to act, today, in protection of minorities sends out a dangerous signal for the future. Amel Nona, the Chaldean archbishop of Mosul, now exiled in Erbil, recently made a troubling prediction: ‘Our sufferings today are the prelude of those you, Europeans and Western Christians, will also suffer in the near future.’ To put it bluntly, if they attack Christians today do you think you will be s
afe tomorrow? The new atheists live in hope of what the end of Christianity will bring. Wiser observers live in fear.

Finally, let me make what you might consider to be a spiritual appeal. 
All the Gospels mention that, at the crucifixion of Jesus, there were bystanders, presumably with nothing better to do, who stood by watching, blithely unconcerned about what they were seeing. For them, the crucifixion was no doubt just ‘one of those things’ that you acknowledge with a shrug. Yet Christ said that in some way he lives in the lives of his followers and that the Church is his body today. To accept that is to recognise that what we are seeing today, in the onslaught on the Church, is, in effect, a re-crucifixion of Christ. To stand idly by as people are massacred for their faith and to do nothing is to merge with that first-century crowd of callous bystanders. History has not judged them kindly and if we do the same, it will not judge us kindly either. Neither I’m afraid, will God. 

J.John

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Proverbs 8

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Here is some insight available for us today from Proverbs 8 (from the Message Bible translation): 

Vs.1. Do you hear Lady Wisdom calling? Can you hear Madame Insight raising her voice?

God is personified here as a woman calling out to young men and offering him wisdom and insight for life. In the busyness of the day and the cacophony of sounds around us, do we hear her voice? Are we tuning out the noise to tune in to her heart? How much better life will be if we follow God's way, live life as he intended to be lived. Wisdom is telling us how to live at our very best (vs.6).

Vs.10. Prefer my life–disciplines over chasing after money, and God–knowledge over a lucrative career.

Wisdom is better than money or fame. What are you pursuing today? What's most important to you?

Vs.13. The Fear–of– God means hating Evil, whose ways I hate with a passion – pride and arrogance and crooked talk. 

Fearing God means living with an awareness that he is with me and watching everything I say or do. That awareness leads to right choices. 

Vs.17-18. I love those who love me; those who look for me find me. Wealth and Glory accompany me – also substantial Honor and a Good Name.

When we look for wisdom, we will find it. When we ask, we will receive. With wisdom comes wealth and honour. God made wisdom before anything else (vs.22).

Vs.33. Mark a life of discipline and live wisely; don't squander your precious life.

We have one life to life. This is not a dress rehearsal. This is the real thing. Live wisely by knowing what God's will is and pursuing that each day.

Vs.34-36. Blessed the man, blessed the woman, who listens to me, awake and ready for me each morning, alert and responsive as I start my day's work. When you find me, you find life, real life, to say nothing of God 's good pleasure. But if you wrong me, you damage your very soul; when you reject me, you're flirting with death. 

Begin the day with God and the wisdom that comes from his Word. Open your ears and your eyes. Listen and look – for God at work. Do life together with God. Join him in the kingdom work he is doing where you are today. Feel his pleasure. See his smile. Love and be loved today. 

How to Know You Need a Sabbath When …

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I loved this BLOG post written by Peter Scazzero.

You know you need a Sabbath when:

1. The only time you are alone is in the bathroom.

2. It takes you over thirty minutes to fall asleep because your mind is racing about things you forgot to do.

3. You think rest is standing still in traffic.

4. You go to check your e-mail for a moment and are still there an hour later.

5. You cannot remember anything you ate the last 3 days.

6. You drove for an hour and had so much on your mind that when you arrived, you were not sure how you got there.

7. You don’t know what day it is.

8. You find yourself jealous and angry when someone else is enjoying life.

9. You can’t remember the last time you sat down to eat breakfast.

10. You tweet during a movie, text during dinner, read email during meetings and classes, and learn about your spouse’s day from Facebook.

Sabbath is as counter-cultural, radical and prophetic as it was 3,500 years ago when God invited the Israelites to stop, rest, delight, and contemplative Him for one 24 hour period each week. Listen to this free sermon Peter recently gave at New Life on “Sabbath: The Foundation of our Work” from Deuteronomy 5:12-15.

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Pete is the Founder and Teaching Pastor/Pastor at Large at New Life Fellowship Church, a large, multiracial, international church with seventy-three countries represented. Pete is the author of two best-selling books: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality (Nelson, 2006) and The Emotionally Healthy Church (Zondervan, 2010). Connect with Pete on Twitter @PeteScazzero and find out more about Emotionally Healthy Spirituality at http://emotionallyhealthy.org.

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Next: Pastoral Succession that Works (by Warren Bird)

NextWarren Bird and William Vanderbloemen have written an excellent and much-needed book about leadership succession within the local church: Next – Pastoral Succession that Works.

The book is based on over 200 case studies and 50 in-depth interviews with pastors and churches who have navigated the succession territory – either effectively or badly. There is much to learn here on this essential topic.

Here are a few key insights and facts from the book:

  1. Every pastor is an interim pastor. The day when a successor takes over will come for everyone in ministry.
  2. Planning for that day of succession may be the biggest leadership task a leader and church will ever face.
  3. Everyone wants to talk about succession … until it's their own.
  4. Dave Travis, CEO of Leadership Network, defines pastoral succession as "the intentional process of the transfer of leadership, power and authority from one directional leader to another."
  5. Equating 'succession planning' with 'retirement planning' is a major error in perception.
  6. The best time to think about pastoral succession is now.
  7. Most churches age with their pastor, the average age in a congregation being about five years younger than their senior pastor's age … unless certain exceptions are in place, including intentionally giving younger leaders ministry opportunity and leadership influence within the church.
  8. 'Founding pastors' (in comparison to 'successors') lead 45% of the largest 100 churches in the USA. Will they stay too long, like many pastors? Unfortunately, the average pastor steps aside only after 8-10 years of attendance decline.
  9. Newer churches tend to draw younger people. Long-established churches are often dominated by an older age group. 
  10. The average age difference between an outgoing pastor and successor is 22 years (taken from a sample of 100 well-known pastor successions). 

To check out my own take on this important subject, based on our two leadership transitions at CityLife over our 47 year history, see my book Pass the Baton: Successful Leadership Transition.

Is it time for you to pass the baton?

Proverbs 1

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Here is some terrific wisdom available for us today from Proverbs 1 (from the Message Bible translation):

Vs.7. Start with God – the first step in learning is bowing down to God; only fools thumb their noses at such wisdom and learning. 

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of true wisdom. To fear God means to acknowledge that he exists and that he is with us at all times. That awareness leads us to think smart and make wiser choices. Take some steps to live today with a greater awareness that God is with you – Emmanuel. Include him in your daily thoughts and decisions.

Vs.8. Pay close attention, friend, to what your father tells you; never forget what you learned at your mother's knee.

Wisdom begins with humility, which is acknowledging that God and others are major contributors to anything we become or accomplish in life. No parent is perfect but we can learn so much from their wisdom and life experience. It is time to thank mum or dad for all they've done for you – maybe today?

Vs.10. Dear friend, if bad companions tempt you, don't go along with them.

Our friends have a huge influence on us so choose your friends wisely. We tend to become like those we hang around. That doesn't mean withdrawing from everyone. The key issue is considering who the greater influence is. Let's be a light in the darkness and a bringer of hope to the discouraged.

Vs.32. Carelessness kills; complacency is murder.

We don't drift into wisdom or God's kind of life. The pull is the other way. Lady Wisdom calls to us from every street corner (see vs.20). But will we listen and follow? Or will we go our own way, blindly following the crowd? What we tolerate we will never change. Do you need to tap into some desperation today?